DVO (Domestic Violence Orders)

The police arrived and presented a DVO or some such order. You may or may not have been expecting this, if not, then usually the shock is overwhelming and unbearable at first, but believe me,
YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS WITH HELP!

Thoughts may be that someones playing with you, it can’t be real, what and why are they saying these things? You may feel sick, shaking and confused, heart racing. You’ve probably never felt like this… A few days pass from the sickening police visit, you’re in disbelief, but aware you have to do something, but WHAT? You need help, You’ve never asked for help and don’t know who to turn to.
You realise you can’t wait any longer, you need to act. There’s only have a few weeks until a court hearing, what do you do?

If you receive a:
Domestic Violence Order, Protection Order, Temporary Protection Order, Restraining Order or Apprehended Violence Order in Queensland, it's important to take the necessary steps to ensure your safety, your future and comply with the order. THE SYSTEM IS NOT ON YOUR SIDE. Here are some steps you can take: 

​1. Read the order carefully: Make sure you understand the terms of the order, including the conditions and restrictions that apply.
Comply with the order: Follow all the conditions and restrictions outlined in the order. Failure to comply with the order may result in serious consequences, including criminal charges.

2. Consider seeking legal advice from a lawyer who specialises in domestic violence cases. (You are NOT a lawyer, and unless you are, you will probably be your own worst enemy.) They can explain your rights and options, and help you navigate the legal process. If you decide NOT to seek legal advice before the hearing, bear in mind there are duty lawyers at the court and you will need to ask at the court for help on the day of your hearing before your case is heard. The duty lawyer will (hopefully) guide you in the right direction and speak on your behalf to the court for you.

3. Seek support: Reach out to friends, family, or a domestic violence support service for emotional and practical support. You do not have to go through this alone.

4. Record of any incidents or interactions with the person who took out the order, including any breaches of the order. This information may be useful if you need to take further legal action.
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5. If you are required to attend court, it's important to do so. Failing to attend court can result in the order being made final without your input.

6. The cost : The cost may well exceed your imagination, be it financially, mentally and/or physically. I say physically, as with the anxiety/depression that often occurs in this situation, you need to immediately understand that looking after yourself is now your number one priority. You may be able to seek legal aide for the financial aspect, as generally, the cost could lead to thousands of dollars.

What to expect at court: This can/will vary depending on if it was a spouse or the police responsible for filing the order.

Here's a few links for additional information:
https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/Home
https://mensrights.com.au/
https://www.1800respect.org.au